Banish Your Past Lover This kind of spell is to get rid of that ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend once and for all. If you’ve ended a relationship with someone and they just won’t accept that it’s over, if they keep calling you, writing to you, or even worse, if they keep coming over, then this is the spell for you. Banish Your Past Lover Within a day or two of casting this spell most people get a huge sigh of relief. Then, the past lover begins to attempt contact less and less often, and then other people will begin to get involved in situation in such a way that the past lovers attention is diverted away from you and they have someone or something else to focus their energy